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Families… Come in different shapes and sizes…

In Culture, Education, Family on December 5, 2012 by Sufen Wang Tagged: , , , , ,

MH900435055What You Should Know About Adoption

November was National Adoption Month 2012 – a month dedicated to raising awareness about adoption and drawing attention to the 104,000 children in foster care who still need good homes. But just because November is over, doesn’t mean you have to wait another year to find out more about adoption. In fact, if you’re thinking of adopting, now is the perfect time to start educating yourself about the challenges and steps involved in the adoption process.

For example, you must prepare to be patient. After you first contact an adoption agency, it usually takes about a year for a child to be placed with you. During that time you’ll need to complete an adoption home study, which explores your motivation to adopt and the type of children you are both willing and able to parent. Next, after expressing interest in a child or sibling group, the possible match will go through a series of reviews. If all goes well, the child/children will eventually be placed with you, but the adoption will not be legally final for at least another six months after this placement.

MH900382585While there is no ideal adoptive parent, you should be able to provide a happy, balanced home for the new member of your family. As long as you have stable housing, it does not matter if you rent or own your living space. You must also have adequate income to meet your family’s needs. Just as importantly, you must be a mature and responsible adult. So if you don’t have a job, you live in your parents’ garage, and you play computer games all day, you probably shouldn’t consider adoption – at least not for right now.

MH900183052If you feel ready for both the adoption process and the adoption itself, it can be an incredibly rewarding change in your life. However, even if you aren’t prepared to take that big step, you can still have a positive impact on a child’s life. Many children in foster care have been removed from their homes for their own protection, due to abuse and neglect. As a volunteer for a non-profit organization such as CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) of Orange County, you would be assigned to consistently spend time with one of these children, building a relationship and ensuring that he or she receives the necessary support while going through the foster care process. In fact, this one-on-one relationship between the volunteer and dependent child is often the only stable, positive relationship that child has. If you want to help, then consider dedicating your time to becoming a friend and advocate for a foster child.

Mother and DaughterOn The Family, 
Sufen Wang,
Wang Solutions

One Response to “Families… Come in different shapes and sizes…”

  1. Excellent story once again! Thumbs up;)

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